I remember when I was a kid; sitting on the carpet at home one evening and watching my favourite comedy show (Mind your language). One of the characters was an Italian Casanova, he had just been entrusted with one of his class mates’ secrets… so when asked to never tell a soul he replied “If I talk in my sleep, I will lie to myself”. Haha that has nothing to do with this post, it just took me way back to my youth.
It is a real bad idea to lie to yourself, but I guess for some the truth is way too much to handle so they create these lies that they tell themselves and to others… yet who are they really deceiving? I have always believed in the idea of “Hurt me with the truth, rather than hurt me with a lie”. If you plan on lying to yourself then by all mean do so, but do not involve me or anyone else in that lie as you will end up hurting innocent by-standers, namely those you care about, one way or another that lie you tell yourself will manifest itself and directly or indirectly affect others. How you ask? “Babe do you love me? Lie downloading…98% complete “yes I do, you are the only one for me” 5 months down the line he/she catches you in bed with another, in your defense your reply is “It just was not working, I lost interest a while ago, I just couldn’t bring myself to tell you and hurt you”. Yet one must ask which would have hurt more? The truth or the lie…